I won't quote your last post toy_car_uk for sake of space.
You're quite right, I do care and "emotive" derives from "emotional", because, to be honest, I could cry rivers at the stupidity of it all (Back to those bloody aid workers, I guess!!). Nothing was ever achieved by shouting slogans alone, but slings and arrows are outrageous!
I'm throwing in the towel (which is where the emotion comes from - it's frustration) because as the wise Jon J (Batraven) said recently on Twitter, "Winning Warriors Win, then go to War..."
There'll be no winners here.
My apologies if you took anything as a personal snipe at you, it wasn't. But it was at the stance you seem to support.
I have spoken to only one of the Principal parties in private (I don't know and have never met the other face to face) and believed there to have been lots of wriggle room. Then 24 hours later felt his strength of bitterness in a email. I came up with the idea of an Open Letter and worded it (carefully I hope you'd agree). The other side (although interesting, not its Principal) have set about trashing the concept.
And so, here we are. Troops lined up. War paint on. No hope of Peace Talks.
As a CDRA Committee member I've probably gone further and said more than allowed by the neutrality the Committee wanted to maintain to be effective in Mediation. Also, like all Civil Wars, friends and neighbours end up on opposite sides. Others, like me, don't care about the different stances; they just want a peaceful environment to enjoy life (in this case, hockey). That's the don't care bit. It's hockey friends that matter to me, not who governs the hockey.
And so, hockey friend, a pint in the bar and talk of what might have been seems the best way to close our rather public exchange of views. See you at the rink. First rounds on me.